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Soul Mates

I am often asked "when will I meet my Soul Mate?", this is my response:

Soul Mates come in many guises, and often we have more than one to work with in a life time. Soul Mates come to us when we have life lessons to learn. If you have not learned whatever this soul mate came to teach the possibly you will work together again, if not in this lifetime then in another. Equally if you have not acquired the knowledge you needed from this encounter you may be given another opportunity with a different soul mate. Do you have repeating patterns in your life, look back, notice any similarities in relationships, work challenges, or your response to change?

Not all of our soul mates are lovers or partners; sometimes they are simply friends, family members, colleagues or chance acquaintances. Sometimes our soul mates are a destructive force in our lives, take off your rose tinted spectacles, when chaos and pain are wrought around us we learn the most.

How will you know? Sometimes you won't know until after they have gone out of your life, with the benefit of hindsight it is easier to identify those who really make a dramatic difference in some way. Sometimes you will 'just know' when you first meet them that you have met before, but this time round they may be a big part of your life.

No one can tell you exactly when a soul mate is going to appear in your life, we can use various techniques to look at when opportunities will arise, for love, long term partnerships etc., but only you can make it happen, you have free will. A reading can give you guidance but it is not 'fortune telling' in a predictive sense. A skilled 'reader' can help you understand what is going on in your life, how you have dealt with similar situations in the past, what you need to learn from each experience, what you need to let go of, release and what positive aspects you should take forward in life.

Stop waiting for life to happen to you, get out there and start living it!

Recommended reading: Weiss, Brian, Only Love Is Real: A Story of Soulmates Reunited.

"I guess the main effect is it really makes you think - am I connected to those people around me? have I already met my soulmate? Is the one I'm with the one I'm meant to be with? It makes you believe in destiny, but explains things I feel comforted to know. For example he suggests that you don't meet your soulmate in every life, sometimes they're not your sexual partner, but your sibling, child or parent, or even if you do meet that they might not recognise you. It does not contain any trite promises that you will meet your soulmate and he/she will be your husband/wife." From a review of the book (Amazon)

Love and blessings
Gaia